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Is it an argument against a split or divorce or is it just stepping back and taking time

to consider…. who knows…I certainly don’t! But maybe just maybe when the hurt,

the anger, the emotional turmoil of those times when everything in your relationship

was going wrong have subsided ,you can take a step back and look at things differently

Will you feel like cancelling the whole thing and rushing back into each others arms ….

Who knows….I certainly don’t!

But maybe, just maybe, someone should test it and let the rest of us know if it works

because there are so many out there who look back with eyes wide open and would put up

with a lot more within a relationship now. Having got over the traumatic split and all that

comes with it, picked yourself up dusted yourself off and off testing the water with other ‘so called’

singles those ‘relationships’ that are formed in the early days of being single are flattering and fun

for a short time, then we see all the foibles in each other and off we go to start all over again…….

should it be ……..Relax don’t do it!! Who knows….I certainly don’t!

I mention those other ‘so called’ singles because are they single? or are they like a lot of us and

really only looking with one eye and half a heart? Whilst the other eye and possibly the other half of the heart

is on what they had and what they left or lost. Who knows….I certainly don’t!

But maybe , just maybe, we should learn to take a step back and look before we leap out

of that relationship……..or should we?

Who knows….I certainly don’t But I would love to hear if others know!!