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Re:just separated - 2007/11/11 19:41 Hi
This is really painful, after fifteen years my wife started saying this sort of thing. I went like this, trying to find stuff out all the time. Looking for things. She didn't want to know, and I guess I was right on the edge because I was the one that cared. I can see it now but then it was all a blur. I have a daughter that still lives with her mum, my son came with me, that was a blessing. It still hurts but I must say the old platitudes about time and life moving on are true, although probably nonsense to you at present. I wish you all the best and you can talk to me if you want to.

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Re:just separated - 2007/11/13 20:50 HI THERE, I'M SO SORRY YOU ARE GOING THROUGH THIS, YOUR WIFE SAYS THERE IS NOONE INVOLVE, THE TRUTH IS THAT SHE DOESN'T LOVE YOU ANYMORE. IT DOESN'T MATTER IF THERE IS ANYONE ELSE INVOLVED OR NOT. DON'T BEG HER TO COME BACK. GIVE THE FREEDEM SHE NEEDS TO SORT HER HEAD OUT. I LEFT MY HUSBAND A COUPLE OF YEARS AGO. MY DAUGHTER WAS 2, TOO. HE EPT ASKING QUESTIONS, PHONING ME AND JUST TRYING TOO HARD. THAT PUT ME OFF HIM EVEN MORE.JUST GIVE HER TIME AND IF SHE STILL WANTS A DIVORCE THERE IS NOTHING YOU CAN DO. IM JUST TRYING TO MAKE YOU SEE THINGS ROM HER POINT OF VIEW.
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Re:just separated - 2007/11/27 03:56 hey man. I totally feel your pain. I am going through the very same thing. I have been married for 8 years, and have 2 boys, and in September she told me she doesn't love me anymore either. All I can say is to let her have her space, and live your life for you, and your child. It's been almost 3 months for me, since she has left, and I still cry myself to sleep at night, but the more I back away, the closer she comes in, but the first sign I show of wanting a reconciliation, she backs away. Do some soul searching while you have the time man. I'm here if you need someone to talk to.
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Re:just separated - 2007/12/24 22:27 Thats terrible your boys must be very young for this to have happened. How is it going is your wife looking like she wants to reconcile yet?
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