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jhb

 
 just separated - 2007/09/19 15:11 hello, my wife of 4 yrs left me last month, taking our 18 month old son with her (she has been quite reasonable with access every other weekend and tuesdays). Not completely sure why she left, she assures me know one else is involved, and says she just does not love me. She refuses to go to councelling and is adamant she wants to divorce. I am staying in the family home (a friend of her family has leant her a house). I am going out of my mind and finding it difficult to believe there is no one else involved.

look forward to hearing from anyone with advice or just for an e-chat. (forgive me though my i.t skills are poor)
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yorkie74

 
 Re:just separated - 2007/09/22 14:00 I can sympatise with you although i wasnt married to my now ex partner last weekend after 3 and a half years together she told me to move out and told me no one else was involved and after all that i did for her i cant accept that no one else is involved anyone who has any suggestions then i would dearly love to hear them as i love her still with all my heart
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Joe

 
 Re:just separated - 2007/09/23 17:32 It's difficult to know - would she want to say if there was someone else involved or try and spare your feelings? Whether someone else is involved or not if she has decided to move on there isn't much you can do.

Maybe give it one last throw of the dice and bombard her with flowers gifts etc... you never know how it will turn out.

We all end up taking people for granted in the end if we aren't careful even though we love them.
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sue66

 
 Re:just separated - 2007/09/24 14:20 Hi, my husband left me 5 months ago and I'm aslo finding hard to understand 'Why'. We've been married for 15 years and he's left me and our 2 children just saying that he doesn't love me or want me anymore, it's very hard to accept that it's over. My husband had 'a physical but not sexual friendship' with a female work college 2 years ago and I think that has made him doubt his feelings for me. I've tried lots of times to see what he's given up but he's not interested in me anymore.
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Sussex lady

 
 Re:just separated - 2007/09/29 10:36 Sorry to hear about your situation Sue66 - maybe your husband has just had his 'head turned' by this friendship and as you say it has made him question his feelings for you. 'Grass always looks greener'
Not what you want to hear I am sure but if his feelings are still really there for you he will be back if not then it is better dealt with now so that you can both get on with your lives and helping the children adjust to the situation.
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Dragonfly

 
 Re:just separated - 2007/10/01 20:50 I understand the pain! My ex-husband left 3 1/2 years ago for a woman he worked with. They are now married. He made up his mind and there was nothing I could do. I knew this woman and I know what kind of person she is. He is now just like her. It is a very difficult thing to deal with. It's like I'm mourning because the man I knew is no longer there.
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