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When Ross and I were first married, I remember firmly telling my mother-in-law "if Ross had an affair it would be the end of our marriage".
She smiled at me. "When you've been married a lot longer, other things become more important."
"Never!" I declared. "If the trust is broken, you can never feel the same way about someone again."
But she's right. Now, 20 years into our marriage, my views have changed dramatically.
Would it really be the end of the world if I discovered that Ross had been having an affair? No, I don't think it would.
Many will be astonished by that statement, but with 20 years of marriage under our belt, I'm now more prepared to look at the bigger picture.
We have two children we adore. We have just bought a wonderful old shooting lodge in Argyll to restore. I have two horses, together we own six... |
